Monogamy

MONOGAMY IS THE SPIRITUAL LADDER

By Te Na

Monogamy

What is a monogamy ? Marriage is not a meeting of women and men by chance. Marriage is a bond that is closed, forge ties of men and women become one, one in the union of body, mind heart, and only one time in life. Perfect mix of four to produce an ideal marriage. 

Unification of the body or physical, of course, is an important part in marriage. Unity of mind is a mental bond that exists between husband and wife. Institute of mixing it comes to ideas, values, standards, norms, ideals and so forth. This is part of the spiritual ladder monogamy. 

Spiritual Appliances monogamy also fix the difference. Sometimes the husband and wife can start their marriage with a different view. But slowly with persistent efforts from both sides, they can change minds become one direction. This can be done by reading good literature, engaged in work culture, make friends with good people, listening to the discourse of the sages and so forth. 

By doing  monogamy will help the mind in digesting the correct values and ideals in life and will help develop the inner spirit of inquiry in sorting between right and wrong. 

Monogamy is an alliance of heart or emotion. For the success of the unity of emotion, the properties of what is important is unconditional love, understanding, tolerance, compassion, generosity, kindness, gentleness, caring and forgiving. These things will not come automatically, but these values should be planted, maintained and developed as young seedlings. 

After the husband and wife realize and recognize the true value and the ideal of monogamous life, they will try to have the properties and the right tools needed to build a solid emotional unity. 

Harmonious combination of physical, mental and emotional bonds between husbands and wives in monogamy will not only bring a happy marriage, but also create a happy home. Parents who are united in happiness and harmony will be perceived by their children. They will create the right environment and appropriate for their children who will be able to acquire and develop proper values and proper in life. 

It is sad that the real purpose of monogamy has been lost from modern ideas. If you ask a man or young woman in an era now why they marry, someone might say that it is accepted and expected by society. Others might say that, marriage is to gain social status, economic status or increase the insurance. Some people think that marriage is the solution to the problem of caring for the elderly and some even think that it is guaranteed to cope with loneliness in old age. 

The actual facts are monogamy is a process of spiritual improvement, bringing together men and women. Before their marriage is half of the part, but after marriage they got together and become a part. The husband considers his wife the only woman who loved and owned by husband and wife assume the only person who loved and owned. This is the beginning exercise for us to learn to focus on couples and ultimately, helps us to focus only on God. And this is the result of our true spiritual improvement, united with God.

It is a sacred duty to husband and wife work together, striving for spiritual progress. monogamy help guide, promote and provide encouragement in their spiritual journey until they get a sense of identity and unity with God.

This is the real meaning of monogamy. Marriage is the bridge between humanity and divinity which is traversed by a husband and wife in the balance, unity and harmony. 

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